Somehow, Ramadan always seems to fly by. One minute we're welcoming the month and setting goals, and the next we're staring at the last ten nights wondering where the time went. In this episode with UIF's Resident Scholar, Mufti Saad Haque, Wesam Berjaoui and Omer Subhani discuss how to maximize the last ten nights, balancing it with life and responsibilities and how to make Eid enjoyable for everyone.
Life Doesn't Stop During Ramadan.
The last ten nights of Ramadan are unlike any other nights of the year. They are our opportunity to seek Laylatul Qadr, a night that is better than a thousand months. That's why now is the time to have a game plan and make the most of every moment we can.
For many of us, life doesn't stop during Ramadan. We still have work, school, children, responsibilities, and deadlines. But even if we can't spend every night in the masjid, we can be intentional about how we spend our time.
If you're able to, spend as much time in the masjid as possible. Attend iftar, pray Maghrib, stay for Isha and Taraweeh, and consider participating in i'tikaf if your circumstances allow. For those balancing family responsibilities, consider alternating nights with your spouse so each person has dedicated time for worship. Sometimes worship isn't about doing everything; it's about creating a realistic plan that helps you stay consistent.
One of the easiest ways to increase your worship is to build it into the moments you already have. Read the Qur'an during your commute, listen to recitation while driving, make dhikr while preparing meals, and keep your tongue busy with du'a throughout the day. Ask Allah (SWT) for everything. Make the du'as that feel impossible. Ask for guidance, forgiveness, provision, healing, Jannah, righteous children, a stronger relationship with Him, and anything else your heart desires. Nothing is too big for Allah (SWT).
Don't underestimate the power of praying in congregation either. The Prophet ﷺ taught us that whoever prays Isha in congregation is rewarded as though they prayed half the night, and whoever prays Fajr in congregation is rewarded as though they prayed the entire night. Whether that's in the masjid or at home with your family when circumstances require it, make those prayers a priority.
These nights are also a time for generosity. Give sadaqah often and give more than the minimum. If you've been planning your charitable giving, don't wait until Eid. Give before Eid so families can benefit from it during Eid and enjoy the celebration with dignity and ease. Sometimes a small gift at the right time can have a greater impact than a larger gift given later.
Adjusting Your Schedule for the Last 10 Nights
As the last ten nights approach, look at your schedule and see what adjustments you can make. Some people take PTO. Others work with their supervisors to adjust their schedules temporarily. Maybe you can simplify meals, reduce social commitments, spend less time scrolling, and free up more time for worship. The goal isn't perfection. The goal is making room for what matters most.
Most importantly, remember that actions are judged by intentions. You can transform ordinary moments into acts of worship simply by intending them for the sake of Allah (SWT). Going to work to provide for your family, serving your community, helping a neighbor, caring for your children, supporting your spouse—these can all become acts of worship when done with the right intention. Let your daily life become part of a bigger picture of serving Allah (SWT).
And as Ramadan comes to an end, don't get so busy preparing for Eid that you forget to enjoy it. Decorate the house. Dress up. Make it exciting for the kids. Create traditions and core memories they'll carry with them for years. At the same time, give yourself permission to slow down. Not everything has to be perfect. Reduce stress where you can and focus on being present with the people you love.
The last ten nights are a gift. Make a plan, stay intentional, and trust that every sincere effort counts.
May Allah (SWT) allow us to witness Laylatul Qadr, accept our worship, forgive our shortcomings, and reward us abundantly for our efforts. Ameen.
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